I’m Fed Up.  Here’s Why…

I’m Fed Up.  Here’s Why…

A few days ago, I had yet another coaching call with a client who told me about a wounding experience with her previous book coach.


I listened with every cell of my being as she explained how she felt forgotten as soon as this guy had her money.


How she was being pressured to write HER book according to HIS pre-determined formula.


How he confused her with another woman in the program.


How he publicly berated a fellow student.


And worst of all how she never even talked to him directly, just his “team of experts” or through a public social media platform.




For an investment of nearly $20,000 (which is what she paid) an author deserves a whole hell of a lot more than that!!


For that kind of money, a client deserves to feel like they are the only person in the world writing a book – that their unique experiences, challenges, stories and journey truly matter to the coach…


That the coach is there for them through every twist and turn, every success and setback,  every smile and tear along the way of birthing your BEST book.


Not just “a” book that gets cranked through some writing factory…


But THE book that is a unique extension, expression and embodiment of the author’s wisdom, knowledge, and most importantly… ESSENCE.


Essence is the singular most important factor when writing your transformational book… the DNA – or soul – of your book.


Nail that and the book writing is easy.


Try to “microwave” essence or fit your round peg into someone else’s square hole and it’s heartbreaking… wounding.


Like my client who walked away from that nearly $20,000 book writing program… with no refund and no book.


Thankfully she walked into my arms and into the sacred sanctuary that I and my entire team create and honor for those we are blessed to serve on their writing journey.


Yes, a sacred sanctuary…


A cocoon of love, acceptance, compassion, truth, guidance, tough questions and relentless commitment to authors having a LIFE-CHANGING, JOYFUL and EMPOWERING experience writing their book.


Which is the exact opposite of what happened to another client of mine who had a book coach (who she paid $10,000) tell her she should reconsider writing a book about well-being… because nobody would take her seriously since she was slightly overweight.


That is messed up!


And why I’m totally freakin’ fed up with the state of the author industry.


Pardon my language… but I hear so much shit like this that I just can’t ignore it anymore.


There is an epidemic of snake-oil salesmen (and women), that are preying on people’s hopes and dreams…


Enticing them to part with their money…


Yet, without a care in the world for WHO that person truly is…


WHAT they are healing and liberating through their book writing journey…


HOW they can be BEST served to share their TRUE message and birth it in the world…


WHY the author is inspired to write in the first place.


So, I am making a commitment to you to be more vocal about what it really takes to write a great book – and be willing to ruffle some feathers along the way.


Ruffling feathers is not something I like to do.  I was that middle child who always tried to keep peace no matter what.




Something about this conversation – the second one of its kind within 24 hours with two of my amazing, gifted, beautifully unique clients –  flipped a switch in me.


So, stay tuned as I begin to turn up the volume of my own true voice, and bring some much-needed clarity, healing and hope to people around the world who know they have a message to share, want to liberate it (and themselves through the process), and don’t want to get burned, wounded, shamed or dismissed in the process.


The best is yet to come from me, FIRST NAME!


I’m fed up and fired up and excited to bring you along on this journey.


Struck a chord?  Have something to say about this?  Comment below…


Big hugs and lots of love…




PS – After writing all of this I hemmed and hawed about adding this PS because I don’t want you to think what I wrote was fabricated in any way for an end purpose.   It wasn’t.  It was raw, real, unedited, straight from my heart to yours.


Yet, I am hosting a webinar this Thursday for my colleague Jesse Krieger’s community of authors.


And after writing everything above, I felt nudged to invite you as well…


It will be like a breath of fresh air for you and your book.


On it I’ll be teaching the most powerful author’s tool I’ve developed to date.


If you don’t know about it, you must!  It will become the “north star” for your book.


The tool is called the Transformation Quadrant®.


It’s a quick, simple, clarity and focus-inducing tool that helps you blueprint your book in as little as fifteen minutes.


I taught this at my recent Breakthrough event, and everyone had huge light bulbs go off as a result.


No pressure to join.


But if you want to get your book written and do it in a way that is RIGHT for you, with a coach who CARES about you… this is very likely the last time I’ll host the training this year.


You can join me here.

2018-12-14T12:03:33-04:00 By |Author Mindset, Rants, The Writing Process|

About the Author:

Since 2004, Christine Kloser has trained nearly 70,000 entrepreneurs, leaders and authors to write their transformational books through her popular programs, Get Your Book Done®, the Transformational Author Experience®, Breakthrough LIVE, and the My Time to Write® mentorship program. She is well recognized as the leader of the transformational author movement, and is gifted at helping her clients feel seen, heard, valued and understood in ways that transform their lives, books and businesses. Her passion is to help people liberate their message - so they can BE who they were born to be, and DO what they are here to do! Many of her clients have gone on to become best-selling authors, sign traditional publishing contracts, speak around the world, and appear in major media including: CNBC, CBS, Time, Business Week, CNN, ABC, New York Times, and TEDx.


  1. MamaRed October 31, 2018 at 10:34 am

    Amen, amen, and amen. It grieves me to the core of my being when this happens. I’ve had it happen to me and I’ve sworn that I would never do this to another person. They’re on a sacred journey and deserve to be treated that way!

  2. Christine Kloser October 31, 2018 at 11:07 am

    NOTE: If you are curious about who I’m talking about in this email, you will need to sit with that curiosity as I won’t be naming names. I am not here to bash or badmouth anyone out there whose book writing philosophy is different than mine. I am only here to STAND FOR my philosophy and what I believe when it comes to writing a transformational book.

  3. Christine Kloser October 31, 2018 at 11:10 am

    Amen right back at you! It happened to me years ago and I swore the same thing too. The journey is sacred and should absolutely be honored as such!

  4. Robert Sollars October 31, 2018 at 11:28 am

    Truth and amen. My wife steers me clear from the money grabbers usually. She supports my writing and my voice. Christine is someone she is cautiously hopeful about. But she and I love Christine’s philosophy.

  5. Christine Kloser October 31, 2018 at 11:57 am

    Thank you Robert. How nice to have a wife who supports your writing and protects you from the money grabbers. This is Christine personally responding to say that I appreciate that I am one she is cautiously hopeful about and grateful to hear you love my philosophy. If we can ever do anything to support you just reply to any of my emails and let us know.

  6. Jocelan Ireland October 31, 2018 at 12:37 pm

    Thank you for your blog. As I am also a middle child, I feel your written strength and conviction being the mediator between the older and younger children. Always exuded Love and Peace which they did not understand. Your words are wrapped around my heart with gentleness and caring and maybe one day a Transformational Journey will flow serenely from my Mind and Heart onto an inked paper. Blessings and Gratefulness to whom you are.

  7. Christine Kloser October 31, 2018 at 1:04 pm

    Thank you Jocelan. Grateful to have wrapped gentle caring words around your heart. I have a feeling your book is already written on your heart and will flow in divine right time. Sending you hugs!

  8. Melissa Rowe October 31, 2018 at 1:19 pm

    You are uniquely you, and you are one of a kind, you are love, Thank you for being you. I was searching for a way to share the love that you share and I found this passage from A DAILY DOSE OF LOVE by Christine Kloser that says it best

    YOU Are Love
    The pure essence of who you are is love. Anything you experience that is other than love is simply a block of some sort that is covering it up, like a cloud that blocks the light of the sun. Just like the sun is ALWAYS there, so is the love in YOU!

  9. Christine Kloser October 31, 2018 at 1:51 pm

    Oh sweet Melissa! Thank you for sharing this and thank you for quoting me back to myself… that’s always fun for me So grateful our paths have crossed and I and my team get to support you on your writing journey. Lots of love coming your way beautiful soul.

  10. Judith Bobbitt October 31, 2018 at 7:41 pm

    Christine Kloser and her team are three authentic beings who hold you in sacred space during your journey. I know within every fiber of my being I was guided to Christine and blessed by Carrie and Jean.They have been with me every step of the way and when circumstances knocked me over they helped guide me back on the path. There are many “snake oil sales people out to sell you all kinds of things you don’t need much less ever use, just take your money and leave you heart broken” but With Christine you are guided, helped, inspired, celebrated and also meet the most amazing people along your journey. I’m almost there but know I will make it because I am blessed with beautiful beings who are part of the journey and three I can trust with all my heart! Book almost ready to go to print.

  11. Rick Aster October 31, 2018 at 9:04 pm

    Transformation Quadrant is a real analytical tool that helps you stay true to your inner guidance. You can ignore all the well-meaning advisors who try to persuade you that you are ready to write your book, or the ones who try to discourage you, because after sitting with the Transformation Quadrant schematic of your book for a short time, there is a good chance you’ll be very clear about whether you are good to go or need to step back and fill in something that’s missing.

  12. Christine Meyer October 31, 2018 at 9:58 pm

    You go, girl! Yes! You (and your team) *are* the real deal and you care so much about your authors. Thank you for caring so much about the integrity of your work and how you support authors to write their authentic-to-them books.

  13. Christine Kloser November 1, 2018 at 5:31 am

    Thank you so much Christine! And you are very welcome. So grateful for the opportunity to support you on this journey. Love you!

  14. Christine Kloser November 1, 2018 at 5:32 am

    Thank you Rick! Yes, the Transformation Quadrant has brought much clarity and confidence to authors around the world. It’s a simple yet powerful tool that I’m grateful has helped you with your book.

  15. Christine Kloser November 1, 2018 at 5:33 am

    Thank you Judith! I’m so excited that your book is nearing the finish line. What an amazing gift it was to serve you in bringing this book to life!

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